Monday’s choice by the Supreme Court’s to decline to hear several cases regarding same-sex marriage didn’t mean same-sex couples now have a constitutional right to marry, but it did mean that in 30 states, same-sex couples can marry, either by the state’s decision or through this Supreme Court non-ruling.
So, of course, people ARE FREAKING OUT about how the gays are going to ruin all the straight marriages, human sacrifices, dogs and cats are going to live together, mass hysteria, basically.
Hat tip to The Stranger’s David Schmader for finding the saddest story ever, an op-ed reprinted by the Deseret News from Janna Darnelle, a Utah woman who had her life ripped apart and who won’t stand for this tragedy to be repeated:
Every time a new state redefines marriage, the news is full of happy stories of gay and lesbian couples and their new families. But behind those big smiles and sunny photographs are other, more painful stories. These are left to secret, dark places. They are suppressed, and those who would tell them are silenced in the name of “marriage equality.”
But I refuse to be silent.
I represent one of those real-life stories that are kept in the shadows. I have personally felt the pain and devastation wrought by the propaganda that destroys natural families.
The sad part: Darnelle’s husband left her in 2007 after ten years of marriage, announcing he is gay. Totally fair that Darnelle and her two children were devastated by that news. She certainly had expectations for how her life was going to be and this interruption was surely awful. Darnelle, unfortunately seems to believe that her husband woke up one day and decided to be gay, which is unlikely, but let’s give her the fact that the “marriage” part of her life has been rough.
However, then the editorial gets a little unhinged:
USA Today did a photo journal shoot on my ex and his partner, my children, and even the grandparents. I was not notified that this was taking place, nor was I given a voice to object to our children being used as props to promote same-sex marriage in the media…
After our children’s pictures were publicized, a flood of comments and posts appeared. Commenters exclaimed at how beautiful this gay family was and congratulated my ex-husband and his new partner on the family that they “created.” But there is a significant person missing from those pictures: the mother and abandoned wife. That “gay family” could not exist without me.
There is not one gay family that exists in this world that was created naturally.
They took photos of her children STANDING NEXT TO GAYS. THE INJUSTICE.
Of course, it gets even worse for these kids as they’ve been absorbed in the Nightmarish Gay Underworld:
My children are brought to gay parties where they are the only children and where only alcoholic beverages are served. They are taken to transgender baseball games, gay rights fundraisers and LGBT film festivals…My son is now a maturing teen, and he is very interested in girls. But how will he learn how to deal with that interest when he is surrounded by men who seek sexual gratification from other men? How will he learn to treat girls with care and respect when his father has rejected them and devalues them?…
My daughter suffers too. She needs a dad who will encourage her to embrace her femininity and beauty, but these qualities are parodied and distorted in her father’s world. Her dad wears makeup and sex bondage straps for Halloween. She is often exposed to men dressing as women…What is my little girl to believe about her own femininity and beauty? Her father should be protecting her sexuality. Instead, he is warping it.
The son? clearly going to end up gay as well. The daughter? Who even knows? Clearly, because of the rainbow-colored hellscape this woman is dealing with, we need to shut down gay marriage. And possibly ban bondage straps.
This article appears in Oct 2-8, 2014.
I know a few gay couples who have children, and their unions and the relationship they have with their children is more stable than most people I’ve seen who are married with children. They face the same challenges we face (The ABC’s of Marriage with Small Children: http://bit.ly/1t1bWTl). Get over it, people.
Wondering if Tucson could attract one of those Transgender baseball teams; do they have a league?
It is not as if men never left their wives to marry another women. What kind of man would leave the mother of his children to marry another person? Ronald Reagan, for one. Bob Dole. New Gingrich. Is it okay for them because they married another woman instead of marrying a man.
Now the fact is equality means men are more likely to recognize and accept their sexuality before they enter marriages which are bound to end tragically. The villain in this piece is not marriage equality. It is those who try to convince men that their sexuality is a passing phase, that they only need a good woman to straighten them out, that they need a marriage to woman to conceal who they are and what they are.
Yes they do NJYD. They refer to it as ” a league of their own.”
I still prefer dwarf football.
I sure hope them kids don’t catch the gay from their daddies.
Drinking parties are not an appropriate environment for kids no matter who attends. Sex bondage costumes are not something I would want my kids to come home and tell me about, no matter what the reason for the divorce. It doesn’t seem like this dad is interested in providing a wholesome environment for his kids. Gay or not is beside the point.
@Diane
Right, I am sure that everything said by someone’s ex is 100% true, always. Especially when the split is so clearly amicable and not at all related to the political issue being discussed above.
@Lars: You left out John McCain in your litany of hetero divorcers.
The lady is crazy
Most of the comments missed the point. They failed to feel the pain the woman felt when her husband left her because they can’t get past the gay victim. After all he had to endure being married to a woman and having sex with her. The pain of divorce is real for any of us that experienced it as children. It is even more confusing when your dad leaves your mom for another man. Those that feel this is simply a biological genetic issue miss the emotional part of being human.
An other insightful analysis:
https://www.facebook.com/Stonekettle/posts…
Well said Doug Martin. Well said.