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    <author><![CDATA[justme00]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[First good to see main stream . I to stay away from the ADDs website.<br>
@ Thomas who died and made you boss? I know a lot of DDers who have straps and flogers.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[Cara Bristol]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[I've always known that erotic spanking existed, but I didn't find out about domestic discipline until I started writing and researching spanking prior to writing about it.<br>
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The artwork accompanying this blog is particularly interesting to me -- it's the same artwork used on the cover my domestic discipline erotic romance FALSE PRETENSES.
        
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      <![CDATA[Tucson's kink community goes far beyond spanking. I wrote about DD vs BDSM a few years ago.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[Rose B]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[F/F, F/M, or M/M domestic discipline may not be the norm but it does happen. My partner and I are in what is referred to mostly as a female lead relationship.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[Nick]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Good article, another interesting forum is the disciplinary wives club (disciplinarywivesclub.com) which is about domestic discipline but with the woman the head of the household...
        
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    <author><![CDATA[Case Michael BN]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Its great to see dd getting attention finally instead of Bdsm or other flavors of "kink" as that is not what I nor majority of dd'ers believe it is. However I have to agree with others- I much prefer learning domestic discipline, christian domestic discipline or taken in hand. The content on those are by real people who practice domestic discipline in there relationships not someone who just spanks women for fun.
        
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      <![CDATA[I am impressed that you were able to take a topic that is taboo to a lot of people and was able to write it without prejudice. I am also glad that you did not portray those being spanked as being weak, insecure, brainwashed, a victim, or any of the other things that are frequently thought of those in DD relationships.<br>
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With that said, I think that you could go deeper into the subject of DD.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[Anastasia Vitsky]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Delighted to see that DD (domestic discipline) has made it into the mainstream channels! I'd like to clarify that same-sex DD relationships are not an anomaly, although a casual outsider looking at blogs may easily get that impression.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[BakersBee]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Interesting article! I agree the author did a great job covering a difficult and often hidden topic.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[MA]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Domestic Discipline IS the lifestyle I live. Its not for everyone, but it helped my marriage and opened up communication and closeness.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[TaylorFC04]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Domestic discipline is not a lifestyle I live, although would like to live but my husband is struggling to get on board. Nevertheless, I had a very bad experience on the ADDs blog and know others who have had the same.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[disappointed]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[so this is where the 'new weekly has gone to "Soft porn". the big spank?
        
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    <author><![CDATA[Sarah Rondeau]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Thank you for emphasizing the consensual nature of spanking play. It is the sort of thing that many people do not understand and fail to make the effort you did to learn more.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[Marrianne]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[I don't understand why you didn't talk to the guy from the "adds" domestic discipline website. I looked at it and he looks like he has a lot of experience and the lady you talked to doesn't<br>
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I also agree with Thomas, the last two links don't look like they have anything to do with the subject in this article  <br>
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I think that as long as what people do is consensual in their private life like what dd looks like from the website, no one should judge if a woman chooses to want their husband to lead their home.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[Thomas_III]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[I'm Thomas, a spanko who has participated in the scene for about ten years, and who blogs regularly regarding my experiences (http://thomassspankingexploits2.blogspot.com/). I also practice domestic discipline with my girlfriend of several years.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[MrBB]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Thank you for all the research you did preparing for this article Mari. I'm MrBB the writer of the above mentioned A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS) site.
        
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